One thing I hear people say to me sometimes is this: “Michelle, you’re such a good person.”  Have you ever had this experience?  I think the world is sometimes fascinated when someone chooses not to get drunk at parties, attends church regularly, or goes on mission trips to serve the poor.  When people treat others with respect and dignity, go out of their way to do acts of kindness, have integrity in the workplace, or have a positive attitude despite circumstance, they are seen as radical and different from most others.  These are all things I strive for, so it should not be a surprise when others label me as a “good person.”

But to be honest, it makes me sick.

If people see me as a good person but fail to see Jesus, my good acts are leading everyone astray.  If people think that I am who I am and do the things I do out of my own ‘goodness’ and strength, they are led to think that it all comes down to human effort.  Subsequently, there is no need for a saviour. 

For those of you that know me and think I am a good person, here’s what I have to say: It is ALL Jesus.  If you think I love others, it is because Jesus first loved me.  If you think I have integrity, it is because the Holy Spirit convicts me to do what is right. If you think I have wisdom, it is because God gives it to those who ask. If you think I am pure, it is because Jesus died for my sin, cleansed me form all unrighteousness, and allows me to live in victory over impurity.  If you think I am going to heaven, it is not because of my good works but because of the Cross.  That’s it. 

SHAME ON US FOR TAKING THE CREDIT FOR WHAT JESUS HAS DONE IN OUR LIVES.  We must make it clear to the world that He is the reason we are different.  It would be cruel to mislead people by telling them that we are good on our own.  The Bible says that all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.  But when we believe that Jesus died for us on the cross and ask Him to be our Lord and Saviour, He begins to mold us and shape us to be better people. 

If you are a Christ-follower and people see you as a good person, make sure you give credit where credit is due.

Michelle

Happy Tuesday girls! I thought today I’d introduce you to some of my mentors - authors, that is! I have learned so much from these books, and since I am always on the prowl for another book to learn from, I thought I would share some good ones for you to try.

Wild Goose Chase by Mark Batterson is my favourite book.  I could only handle one chapter at a time because I would have so much journaling and note-taking to do!  It is about following God’s leading even when it takes us to dangerous places, and introduces ‘cages’ that we must be released from to truly live.

ChaZown by Craig Groeschel was huge for me a few years ago when I was trying to figure out who God made me to be and what my calling is in life.  It is a very easy read and gives lots of opportunities to respond on paper.  If you are at a point in life when you don’t know who you are, what you want, or what God has for you, read this one.  I would recommend reading Wild Goose Chase right after.

A Grace Disguised by Jerry Sittser was the best book I read on grieving after my best friend Katharine died in a car accident.  The author lost his mother, wife, and daughter in one car accident, and the book is his journey through grief and the lessons he has learned. This is a must if you or someone you know is grieving over the loss of a loved one.

The Rest of God by Mark Buchanan is about something we as Christians seem to have forgotten: taking a Sabbath day of rest.  As a result of this book, I began to obey God in this area of my life, and for my last two and a half years at university I blocked off a day that for resting, enjoying life, and spending time with God and people. No homework or obligations allowed!  This book will change your life if you put it into practice. I promise you. Do you feel stressed out, overwhelmed, and way too busy? Go get this book right now!

Captivating by John and Stasi Elderidge is a good read as well.  It is about who God has made us to be as women.  I read it in a time in my life when I was struggling with relationships, beauty, self worth, and who I was in Christ.  God did a healing work in my life through this book.

Left To Tell: I just read this and was floored. Imaculee tells her story of discovering God in the midst of the Rwandan genocide.  It is the best book I have read about Rwanda, and got me to take a good look at how strong my faith really is.

I hope these books are as big of a blessing in your lives as they have been in mine. Happy reading!

Michelle

I’ve had it on my heart for the last couple days to talk about body image.  It seems that there are three types of girls out there:  those who hate their bodies, those who love their bodies, and those who have a healthy understanding of who God has made them to be.

1. Have you ever heard a girl say “I’m so fat! Look at my thighs/butt/hips/belly/legs etc.?”  I hate my hair, I hate my feet, I hate my teeth, I hate my skin.  Have you ever said something like this?  Sometimes this leads to obsessive exercise, eating habits, or not wanting to leave the house without make-up.  Let me tell you something.  When I started high school, I was pretty content with how I looked. But I had a friend who was constantly complaining about her body.  First I just thought she was crazy and dismissed it. But after a while, I started thinking, “well if she says that’s wrong with her body, she must have not seen mine!  As a result, I started worrying about how I looked, and learned from her how to complain about certain parts of my body.  And she was a Christian! Girls, when you complain about your bodies, you are (1) insulting the God who made you (2) being a stumbling block to other girls who are content with their bodies.  Stop it.  My mother-in-law said something once that has stuck with me ever since: “A lot of girls say they are ‘self-conscious’ about their bodies.  And that’s exactly what they are: conscious of self.”  By complaining about your body, you are being more conscious of yourself than the God who created you.  Self-worship is idolatry. 

2. Now there is the other extreme. The girls who think they’re hot and flaunt it. The ones with their pictures plastered all over facebook. The ones who dress to impress, especially to get the attention of guys.  This may come across as being confident, but really it is just another form of self-worship.  Let me ask you: how much do you spend on your hair a year? What about clothes? Perfume? Make-up?  The Bible says “where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.”  If your money is an indication of where your heart is, who is your God? Your own body?  How hard would it be for you to no to post any pictures on facebook for a year? Or to not buy new clothes for a year?  What if you are in an accident and get your face badly burned?  Where do you get your worth?

3.  The last group of girls is quite rare.  These are girls and women who know who they are in Christ, are content in their own skin and have accepted their imperfections, work hard to maintain a healthy and balanced way of living (exercise, healthy diet, healthy relationships etc), and overall are more concerned with God and how to serve people than themselves.  These are the girls who are truly attractive, both on the inside and the outside.  They can’t help but draw people to them.  Christ shows on their face.  Guys (and their girlfriends!) feel comfortable around them.  It’s not a competition.  This is what we must strive for!

Let’s not forget that God gave us bodies here in earth for a purpose: to serve Him by loving others.  Our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit.  We should not worship the temple but use it to honour Jesus.

Be honest: which girl are you?

Michelle

Sometimes I find myself in a conversation with other Christians that is getting dull and meaningless, and I want to bring life to it by talking about what God is doing in our lives. But for some reason, sometimes I hesitate to ask the question: what has God been teaching you lately? What is He doing in your life?

I don’t know why this question is so hard for me to ask sometimes, especially when I know the other person loves Jesus and loves to talk about Him.  So why do I hesitate?  I think the biggest reason is that I do not want to seem like the super religious, holier than thou type of person.  But another fear is probably trying to answer the question myself.  What have I been learning lately?  What has God been doing in my life recently?  I don’t want to ask someone else that question if I am struggling to come up with something myself.

Last week I went out for lunch with a friend, and as we shared about our faith journeys and how God has been at work in our lives, I realized something. Intentional conversation about God reveals what God has been teaching me.  As the conversation builds, something will come out of my mouth that I didn’t even realize was in my heart and head.  It’s as if God had been teaching me something without me even realizing it, and it is brought to light through conversation.  Somehow I am able to put words to something that has been simmering in my soul for a while.  And that is such an exciting moment! 

Are you intentional in your conversations?  I urge you to be.  Not only will it shed light on what God is teaching you, but it will allow you to build deeper, more meaningful relationships with brothers and sisters in Christ.  So go ahead and ask the question: what is God doing in your life?

Have a great week girls!

Michelle

I’m sure by now many of you have heard about the massive earthquake in Haiti.  Jay and I have been thinking about it non-stop for the past couple days.  The drummer from Jay’s dad’s church lost his mom that day, and thousands (possibly hundreds of thousands) of others have lost their lives.  Many are still buried under the rubble.  My dad was scheduled to go there on a work trip the following day…and I am so grateful he didn’t leave on the weekend like he usually does.  He is safe and sound in Canada, but other families have not been so fortunate.

My friend Karyn was expressing her frustration yesterday at how hard it is to empathize with and remember others around the world that are suffering because we are so removed from it here in our comfort and luxury. It made me remember something I learned a couple years ago:

Christians, who serve a God who they do not physically see, should be experts at standing alongside and remembering people across the world who we ‘do not see.’  We should apply our disciplines from serving an ‘invisible God’ to serving those in need who geography makes ‘invisible’ to us. 

So what does ‘standing alongside the invisible’ look like to you?  Praying more for the families who have lost loved ones in Haiti? Going on a team to help? Donating to organizations that are bringing food and water?

Let’s actively remember the people of Haiti this week as we go about our day in a world of comfort and luxury.

Michelle