I think one of the hardest things for us girls is not to gossip…even for those of us who are pursuing sexual purity.  You might ask, what does gossiping have to do with purity?

If you are talking badly about another girl, and if that girl happens to hear about it, her self esteem is affected. We know as girls and women that our self worth can be extremely fragile.  Even a negative comment about our hair or clothes can get us all down on ourselves right?  Often girls who feel insecure about themselves will try to get validation and acceptance by turning to guys…and giving away their hearts and bodies in the process.  Why would we want to cause another girl to stumble by undermining her self esteem?

When we disrespect each other, we are giving guys permission to disrespect us.  We need to stop gossiping and comparing and start building each other up.  If you are about to gossip, think if a positive thing about that person instead.  Maybe even write them an encouragement note.  I know I need to be reminded of this on a regular basis.  Do you?

Michelle