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Identity- Whose Are You?!
Hi Girls! I’m new to this whole blogging communications thing, so here’s what I need you to do:
Pretend that we are all curled up on the couch with mounds of blankets with steaming cups of tea. Cozied in for a deep sisterly heart-to-heart.
Identity…it’s something we all struggle with. We all want to know that we are loved and of high value. In my own life, I have found that often on that quest for identity, this comes from men in my life. Regardless of whether that was my Dad or the latest boy. Value from men has always been very important.
Here’s what God’s been hitting me with over and over again throughout this week:
It’s not about who I am…it’s about whose I am.
If people ask us who we are, it’s a mad dash for an answer…I’m a sister, friend, nanny, photographer, tea drinker, and the list goes on. We need to find answers that will qualify our value in the minds of those around us.
As soon as my identity quest becomes about WHOSE I am, then the answer becomes an overwhelmingly meaningful and simple answer of JESUS’. In this one simple answer I find value because there is nothing of more value than Jesus. My life is not my own, it was never meant to find its value in the words or actions of men. We have been bought with the death of a perfect savior. The maker of the entire Universe calls me his. He treasures and values every intricate detail of who he has created me to be. Only through him are we able to grasp this truth.
God has bought us, forgiven us, and furthermore He holds every road block of life in his hands. He is the beginning and the end. (Revelation 22:13) So what do you think girls? Where do we find our identity? What point of the journey are you at? I know that this truth isn’t yet my reality at every moment of every day. It’s a journey…a place I’m striving to reach. What about you?
Andrea

February 17th, 2009 at 9:48 am
Wow Andrea, I have never seen it that way before. Crazy to think that in our indiviualistic society, ‘belonging’ to someone is not seen as a popular concept. But belonging to Jesus gives us so much value. And so much peace.
February 17th, 2009 at 11:46 pm
Hey Andrea! This is awesome!!! I really understood what you were saying about trying to find our identity from the men in our lives. Without even trying, this always seems to be the default. It really takes courage to turn to God. Thank-you for sharing and I can’t wait to read your next entry
Love you girl <3