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If Clothes Could Talk

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A few days ago I listened to a message on purity by Amy Groeschel from LifeChurch.tv.  This is the question she asked during her message:

“If clothes could talk, what would they say about you?”

She proceeded by listing off a bunch of possible answers:

  • I’m insecure
  • I’m easy
  • I’m cool
  • I’m hiding
  • I need love
  • I’m pretty important
  • I need your attention
  • I’m proud
  • I spend a lot of money

Do any of these descriptors apply to you?  Now go and take a look at your wardrobe - do they reveal something different than you’d like to admit?

For those of you who are Christ-followers, how is your identity represented in your clothing?  Are you obsessed with pictures of yourself and all your clothes? Are your clothes a bit on the sleazy side so you can flaunt your stuff to guys around you?  Or are you hiding behind baggy sweatpants and over-sized sweatshirts because you hate your body?

Remember that you were created by a loving God, and when you are in Christ you are Holy, chosen, pure, and BEAUTIFUL. Steward it well.

For more info check out the Modesty Survey by Rebelution.

Love you girls!

Michelle


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When Bubblegum & Beauty Collide

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Jay and I are currently living in a Mexican town called Zirahuen, and this past Saturday we took a day trip to the nearby city of Morelia.  While we were sitting on a park bench admiring the beautiful weather and children blowing bubbles, a man missing an arm and a leg wheeled himself over to us and asked us if we wanted to buy some gum.  We brushed him off with a “‘no gracias, lo siento,” and watched him continue on his way.

After a few minutes Jay said, “you know, this man is mentally handicapped, has lost two limbs, and is trying to sell gum in order to survive in a country where people like him can easily fall through the cracks.  He could just resort to begging on a street corner like so many others, but has taken the initiative to wheel himself around to offer something of value to people who reject him time and time again.”  I watched Jay call the man back over and buy two packs of gum, and during the transaction Jay asked for the man’s name.  The man, Luis, was shocked that a gringo would care enough to ask for his name and smiled from ear to ear.  I was grateful for Jay’s willingness to see past the surface and show dignity to this man.

Two hours later we were sitting in a trolley, taking a historical tour of the city. We stopped and all got out at a church that looked like this:

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Not seeing anything special about this church compared to the others I had seen that day, I was tempted to not go in at all.  In comparison to the others, it was quite boring in appearance.  To my delight however, all my preconceptions were shattered when I walked through the doors and saw this:

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As we left the church Jay and I commented that we never would have known, based on the outward appearance of the church, that so much beauty was held inside.  I realized in that moment that the words I had read in the Bible earlier that morning were being demonstrated before my very eyes.

My brothers, as believers in our glorious Lord Jesus Christ, don’t show favoritism. Suppose a man comes into your meeting wearing a gold ring and fine clothes, and a poor man in shabby clothes also comes in.  If you show special attention to the man wearing fine clothes and say, “here’s a good seat for you” but say to the poor man, “sit on the floor by my feet,” have you not discriminated among yourselves and become judges with evil thoughts?  (James 2)

Ladies, how often do we show favouritism based on appearance? How often do we give special attention to people who are beautiful, or popular, or smart?  God’s word truly came alive to me that day in Morelia, and I know that this is an area I must work on.  Let’s look beyond the outward appearance this week and truly love people as Jesus would love them.

Michelle


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Mirror, Mirror, On the wall…

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I’ve had it on my heart for the last couple days to talk about body image.  It seems that there are three types of girls out there:  those who hate their bodies, those who love their bodies, and those who have a healthy understanding of who God has made them to be.

1. Have you ever heard a girl say “I’m so fat! Look at my thighs/butt/hips/belly/legs etc.?”  I hate my hair, I hate my feet, I hate my teeth, I hate my skin.  Have you ever said something like this?  Sometimes this leads to obsessive exercise, eating habits, or not wanting to leave the house without make-up.  Let me tell you something.  When I started high school, I was pretty content with how I looked. But I had a friend who was constantly complaining about her body.  First I just thought she was crazy and dismissed it. But after a while, I started thinking, “well if she says that’s wrong with her body, she must have not seen mine!  As a result, I started worrying about how I looked, and learned from her how to complain about certain parts of my body.  And she was a Christian! Girls, when you complain about your bodies, you are (1) insulting the God who made you (2) being a stumbling block to other girls who are content with their bodies.  Stop it.  My mother-in-law said something once that has stuck with me ever since: “A lot of girls say they are ‘self-conscious’ about their bodies.  And that’s exactly what they are: conscious of self.”  By complaining about your body, you are being more conscious of yourself than the God who created you.  Self-worship is idolatry. 

2. Now there is the other extreme. The girls who think they’re hot and flaunt it. The ones with their pictures plastered all over facebook. The ones who dress to impress, especially to get the attention of guys.  This may come across as being confident, but really it is just another form of self-worship.  Let me ask you: how much do you spend on your hair a year? What about clothes? Perfume? Make-up?  The Bible says “where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.”  If your money is an indication of where your heart is, who is your God? Your own body?  How hard would it be for you to no to post any pictures on facebook for a year? Or to not buy new clothes for a year?  What if you are in an accident and get your face badly burned?  Where do you get your worth?

3.  The last group of girls is quite rare.  These are girls and women who know who they are in Christ, are content in their own skin and have accepted their imperfections, work hard to maintain a healthy and balanced way of living (exercise, healthy diet, healthy relationships etc), and overall are more concerned with God and how to serve people than themselves.  These are the girls who are truly attractive, both on the inside and the outside.  They can’t help but draw people to them.  Christ shows on their face.  Guys (and their girlfriends!) feel comfortable around them.  It’s not a competition.  This is what we must strive for!

Let’s not forget that God gave us bodies here in earth for a purpose: to serve Him by loving others.  Our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit.  We should not worship the temple but use it to honour Jesus.

Be honest: which girl are you?

Michelle


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  1. Krysten Shoemaker Says:

    Michelle,
    I saw this link to your blog on facebook and decided to check it out! I just wanted to let you know your blog’s are so insightful and inspiring!
    This one has some really great points! What a great message for girls and women everywhere.
    You are an awesome women of God Michelle! :)
    Hope you are doing great!
    Love, Krysten Shoemaker
    (Calibaba!) :)

I Am Your God

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I am your God, I have molded you with my own hands, and I love what I have made.  I love you with a love that has no limits, because I love you as I am loved.  Do not run away from me.  Come back to me— not once, not twice, but always again.  You are my child.  How can you ever doubt that I will embrace you again, hold you against my breast, kiss you and let my hands run through your hair?  I am your God— the God of mercy and compassion, the God of pardon and love, the God of tenderness and care.  Please do not say that I have given up on you, that I cannot stand you anymore, that there is no way back.  It is not true.  I so much want you to be close to me.  I know all your thoughts.  I hear all your words.  I see all of your actions.  And I love you because you are beautiful, made in my own image, and expression of my most intimate love.  Do not judge yourself.  Do not reject yourself.  Let my love touch the deepest, most hidden corners of your heart and reveal to you your own beauty, a beauty that you have lost sight of, but will become visible to you again in the light of my mercy.  Come, come, let me wipe your tears, and let my mouth come close to your ear and say to you, ‘I love you.  I love you.  I love you.’

Girls, this is a reminder for you today that you have so much value in God’s eyes.

Love,

Michelle


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A Poem of Sorts…

My heart is broken for the girl that cannot receive love.
Whose father wasn’t the spiritual leader in her home.
Whose brother never held her face and told her that he loved her.
Whose guy friends never protected her.
Whose mother never told her she was beautiful without the clothes and the make up.
Whose friends never told her of her true beauty.
Whose spiritual family never told her of her true value.
Whose best friends never prayed for her.
Whose spiritual leaders never called her to a higher standard.

She was never told she beautiful, she was never told she was special.
She was never told she was unique, she was never told she was worthy.
She was never told that she was loved, and that same love she never found.

And so, she searches on.

Who will find her, who will save her, who will love her and take her home?
Will she settle for less?  Will she search for more?
Will she live in the darkness?  Will she live in the light?
Will she be a slave?  Will she ever be free?

How did she get here?  How did this happen?  And whose fault could it be?

I am guilty.  You are guilty.  We are guilty.  She is guilty.

But she is innocent.  Because He is innocent.  Because she is His.  And He is hope.

Hope for freedom.
Hope for beauty.
Hope for protection.
Hope for acceptance.
Hope for honour.
Hope for grace.
Hope for worth.
Hope for a special place.
Hope for today.
Hope for tomorrow.
Hope forever.

Hope for love.


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