“Flirty girls are the worst.”

As a member of the male species, I can totally say this- no upstanding dude trusts a flirty girl. Maybe you know one, or maybe you are one:

You smile and/or wink and/or cuddle with pretty much every decent-looking boy.  Hugs are a little long.  You chat online and text constantly.  You’re always going out for coffee or dinner or a movie, with different guys, and you’re ‘just friends.’  Late night chats.  Heart-to-hearts.  Phone calls.  Flirting.  Whether you know it or not, there’s a very good chance that you are leading that poor guy on.

Can I give you a little piece of knowledge that’s worth it’s weight in gold?

If you flirt with every guy in the room, you’ll end up doing two things:

1. You will turn off every guy smart enough to realize that you’re just flirting with everyone.

2. You will attract every bonehead who is dumb enough to think that you’d actually settle down with him.

Here’s what it comes down to:

While you’d think that flirting with a lot of guys would increase your chances of getting a boyfriend, it actually decreases your chances of getting a GOOD one!!!

Dang.  There’s something to re-think about.

So what should you do instead?

Jay