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Want Your Virginity Back? Now You Can!
Well girls, here’s a thought: how far is too far? Most people don’t draw a line anywhere, and most Christians draw the line at intercourse. The hardcore Christ-followers might back it up even further, but let’s be totally honest- many will toss it out the window if a boy sticks around long enough. Many live with regrets. Many wish they that still had their virginity.
In Christian circles, people make a HUGE deal out of staying a virgin until marriage. It’s understandable… impurity is sin. AND- as someone who, by God’s grace, was a virgin AND married a virgin, I can say that it was TOTALLY worth it! But it’s not a dealbreaker.
Preachers do this thing when they talk about virginity- they say “and if you’re in this room tonight and you’ve already given away your virginity, you can become a virgin again. It’s called recycled virginity or second chance virginity.” They then go on to explain that if you stay pure, in God’s eyes, you’re good. That seems to make most people happy.
So let’s throw a monkey wrench in the plans…
Yes, you read that right- for a couple grand, a hymenoplasty will give you your physical virginity back. Doesn’t matter if you lost it years ago, you can now become a technical virgin again. Great news! So now you can sleep around all you want, then tell God you’re sorry, get the opp, and marry a virgin right?!
Of course not. Obviously not. All this operation does is add to the truth: that purity is SO MUCH MORE THAN PHYSICAL. Girls, please listen- God desires your holiness. He craves your righteousness. He desires your purity. He created you for ONE husband. He created your sexuality for ONE loving marriage relationship. Don’t mess around with one of his most creative gifts. Realize that sexuality is HIGHLY spiritual, and that it has implications far beyond your physical body. You need to find out what those are okay?
This might help you start: You can check out Sex God by Rob Bell. I’ve also just added a new book to the Sex Shop. It’s called “Technical Virgin” by Hayley DiMarco. How far is too far? Hayley might just blow your mind.
Be pure this weekend.
